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	<title>Comments on: Think Differently Challenge &#8212; The Value of Independence</title>
	<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/</link>
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		<title>By: Yeoux</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-376</link>
		<dc:creator>Yeoux</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jan 2008 20:15:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Think Different? Well, that's been my down fall so many times thinking outside the box or ahead of the crowd or just a different enough to be a loner. So I will challenge myself to Think Diffent about myself perseption of who I am. I like the God is the doer...It changes the way I think about getting a solution from a spiritual being.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Think Different? Well, that&#8217;s been my down fall so many times thinking outside the box or ahead of the crowd or just a different enough to be a loner. So I will challenge myself to Think Diffent about myself perseption of who I am. I like the God is the doer&#8230;It changes the way I think about getting a solution from a spiritual being.</p>
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		<title>By: The Think Different Challenge &#187; I will change your life . com</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-350</link>
		<dc:creator>The Think Different Challenge &#187; I will change your life . com</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Dec 2007 06:14:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] The Value of Independence - Seeing Is Believing: Believing Is Achieving [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-349</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Dec 2007 00:18:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-349</guid>
		<description>:)  Looking forward to it whenever you have the time and the inclination!  Hey, you may want a break after finals ;)

&lt;em&gt;Grace's last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href='http://thewildpomegranate.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/my-kitchen/' rel="nofollow"&gt;My Kitchen&lt;/a&gt;

&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;Now I'm taking a cue from you, Grace and trying this idea of responding inside your original comment!  And I've already decided on a title.  And so you've heard!  Yep, this is the last week of classes and next week is finals.  I'm looking forward to spend some time in the blogosphere and gearing up for research as soon as it's over. Umm, and after I've gotten some sleep! Ahhh, relaxation.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://www.sibbia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Looking forward to it whenever you have the time and the inclination!  Hey, you may want a break after finals <img src='http://www.sibbia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><em>Grace&#8217;s last blog post..</em><a href='http://thewildpomegranate.wordpress.com/2007/12/03/my-kitchen/' rel="nofollow">My Kitchen</a></p>
<p><b><i>Now I&#8217;m taking a cue from you, Grace and trying this idea of responding inside your original comment!  And I&#8217;ve already decided on a title.  And so you&#8217;ve heard!  Yep, this is the last week of classes and next week is finals.  I&#8217;m looking forward to spend some time in the blogosphere and gearing up for research as soon as it&#8217;s over. Umm, and after I&#8217;ve gotten some sleep! Ahhh, relaxation.</i></b></p>
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		<title>By: Sibbia</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-348</link>
		<dc:creator>Sibbia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2007 16:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-348</guid>
		<description>Grace,

Nope, I'm not an Aries... Western astrology calls me Pisces.  And I've been thinking of how to best answer your comment and decided it would be best written as another post! (or at least the foundation of another post) So bear with me, finals are approaching but I'm getting there.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Grace,</p>
<p>Nope, I&#8217;m not an Aries&#8230; Western astrology calls me Pisces.  And I&#8217;ve been thinking of how to best answer your comment and decided it would be best written as another post! (or at least the foundation of another post) So bear with me, finals are approaching but I&#8217;m getting there.</p>
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		<title>By: Sibbia</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-347</link>
		<dc:creator>Sibbia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2007 16:24:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-347</guid>
		<description>Hi Catherine,

You're quite right!  And though I've often loved the fantasy of a deserted island with all the books, food and internet I could want... that would sure get old after a while.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Catherine,</p>
<p>You&#8217;re quite right!  And though I&#8217;ve often loved the fantasy of a deserted island with all the books, food and internet I could want&#8230; that would sure get old after a while.</p>
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		<title>By: Sorrow</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-346</link>
		<dc:creator>Sorrow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Dec 2007 01:08:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-346</guid>
		<description>I am hiding from Company..
Reading this and smiling...
Thinking..oh no..here goes another one of those not so subtle reminders...
Ask for Help..
You really don't want to do this alone...do you?
many Many thanks..
For the help...
and the reminder...

&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;I'm wondering where my response to your comment went!  I'm sure I wrote one, sorry about that, you'd been marked as spam.  I hope you managed to enjoy the company and found the help you need! :) &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/i&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am hiding from Company..<br />
Reading this and smiling&#8230;<br />
Thinking..oh no..here goes another one of those not so subtle reminders&#8230;<br />
Ask for Help..<br />
You really don&#8217;t want to do this alone&#8230;do you?<br />
many Many thanks..<br />
For the help&#8230;<br />
and the reminder&#8230;</p>
<p><b><i>I&#8217;m wondering where my response to your comment went!  I&#8217;m sure I wrote one, sorry about that, you&#8217;d been marked as spam.  I hope you managed to enjoy the company and found the help you need! <img src='http://www.sibbia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </i></b></p>
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		<title>By: Catherine</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-344</link>
		<dc:creator>Catherine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 20:54:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-344</guid>
		<description>There is an old saying, "no man is an island."  Saying it is one thing, seeing it take form in your life is another and the more powerful of the two.

Thanks for sharing your insights.

Peace

&lt;em&gt;Catherine's last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href='http://continuumwellness.wordpress.com/2007/11/28/a-few-cough-remedies/' rel="nofollow"&gt;A Few Cough Remedies&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is an old saying, &#8220;no man is an island.&#8221;  Saying it is one thing, seeing it take form in your life is another and the more powerful of the two.</p>
<p>Thanks for sharing your insights.</p>
<p>Peace</p>
<p><em>Catherine&#8217;s last blog post..</em><a href='http://continuumwellness.wordpress.com/2007/11/28/a-few-cough-remedies/' rel="nofollow">A Few Cough Remedies</a></p>
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		<title>By: Grace</title>
		<link>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-343</link>
		<dc:creator>Grace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Nov 2007 17:39:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid>http://www.sibbia.com/2007/11/27/think-differently-challenge-the-value-of-independence/#comment-343</guid>
		<description>What a great exercise! :)  Thanks for sharing the site and I'll look into more a little later.

You wouldn't happen to be an Aries, would you? LOL :)  Going from a very (VERY) strong independent streak (which hid, by the way, a fear of rejection) to an interdependent person is no little feat!  Something I've learned along the way is - almost everyone really loves being able to assist, when you ask...especially if they know ahead of time that you aren't asking for the sole purpose of trying to get out of something yourself, etc.

I have to wonder, though, Sibbia...although I understand your reasoning behind giving God the credit...isn't there a balance point we can achieve where we are responsible (in a healthy way) for BOTH accomplishments and mistakes???  I'm not talking about a purely egotistic, "Look at Me" sort of thing...but a healthy feeling of pride in reaching goals, doing a good thing, etc., can help motivate me to doing more good :)

Plus, it helps me to see myself as a part of God - and not something 'seperate'.

What are your additional thoughts on this?

&lt;em&gt;Grace's last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href='http://thewildpomegranate.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/my-beloved-comes/' rel="nofollow"&gt;My Beloved Comes&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a great exercise! <img src='http://www.sibbia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Thanks for sharing the site and I&#8217;ll look into more a little later.</p>
<p>You wouldn&#8217;t happen to be an Aries, would you? LOL <img src='http://www.sibbia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Going from a very (VERY) strong independent streak (which hid, by the way, a fear of rejection) to an interdependent person is no little feat!  Something I&#8217;ve learned along the way is - almost everyone really loves being able to assist, when you ask&#8230;especially if they know ahead of time that you aren&#8217;t asking for the sole purpose of trying to get out of something yourself, etc.</p>
<p>I have to wonder, though, Sibbia&#8230;although I understand your reasoning behind giving God the credit&#8230;isn&#8217;t there a balance point we can achieve where we are responsible (in a healthy way) for BOTH accomplishments and mistakes???  I&#8217;m not talking about a purely egotistic, &#8220;Look at Me&#8221; sort of thing&#8230;but a healthy feeling of pride in reaching goals, doing a good thing, etc., can help motivate me to doing more good <img src='http://www.sibbia.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Plus, it helps me to see myself as a part of God - and not something &#8217;seperate&#8217;.</p>
<p>What are your additional thoughts on this?</p>
<p><em>Grace&#8217;s last blog post..</em><a href='http://thewildpomegranate.wordpress.com/2007/11/27/my-beloved-comes/' rel="nofollow">My Beloved Comes</a></p>
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